In our house, when I assign my husband a punishment spanking, there are rules that I have created to make sure his punishments are consistent and effective. Below are the current rules I gave him with some added detail. Sentencing – If I am wearing the implement to be used for the spanking (like my […]

So what are “Real Spankings”? Well for us and most importantly it is consensual. Meaning both my Wife and I have already agreed to real spanking consequence for me. But even with the verbiage “consensual spanking”, that generally has a connotation of being a fun spanking. And while it certainly can be, it can also […]

While the majority of people look at functionality and fashion of belts, There are quite a few of us that have a fuller understanding of what they are capable in the disciplinary sense. It may be foreign to the younger generation but when I was a kid, getting threatened OR actually GETTING the belt was […]

The Razor Strap (Strop) We never had a woodshed growing up but I remember reading about or seeing in old movies…misbehaviing kids, getting taking to the woodshed for a whuppin’. The implement used was often a leather razor strop, which was common back in the old days as men used it to sharpen their straight […]

While the majority of the spankings I get now are disciplinary spankings, on occasion I still get “fun” spankings. I also wanted to create a post talking about how to give and receive a “fun” spanking. So my definition of a fun spanking is where two consenting adults agree to incorporate spanking into their sexplay. […]

In viewing spanking images or videos online, I’m amazed at how many fantasy spankees are out there in regards to a real spanking. I get it, I’m mean I was there too at one point in time. For those of us aroused by spanking, it is easy to watch a spanking with a hard on […]

So, where to begin. Well in the interest of keeping SOME anonymity I’m not going to get too detailed about myself. But I’ll give some background to give you an idea of our situation. I’m a happily married 30 some year old guy who has an awesomely sexy 30 some year old wife. (and NO, […]