We had a great relationship before incorporating REAL spankings into our lives, but we both feel domestic discipline has added new levels of closeness, trust, and love into our relationship. Just one of the reasons I think there is a lot of benefit to domestic discipline spankings is that it reduces unnecessary tension that can […]

I had a comment today from one of our readers, asking if I spanked my husband in any areas other than the rear. Great question! So I thought I’d write a quick blog post about it. I had created a diagram a while back but never posted it, so this is a perfect time to […]

Last week my wife took me to the “woodshed” and gave me a good old fashioned and severe belt whuppin’. As a matter of fact, it’s a week later and I still have some bruising and blood blisters on my backside. I’ve gotten the belt many times before and all of them have taught me […]

Growing up, I wouldn’t say my siblings and I got a LOT of spankings. But we each earned ourselves a handful. Mostly from my Mom as she was a stay at home mother and had no problem taking off one of her sandals to take care of business right then and there. Although there were […]

I, like many women LOVE shoes. And for me…my shoes of choice are sandals. Flat sandals, thong sandals, t-strap sandals, toe ring sandals…I love ’em all! I love the look of them, the feel of them and even the sound of them when I walk around. I enjoy dangling them as I sit and watch […]

This is a follow up to my “WHUPPIN’ IS COMING” post. If you haven’t read that yet, you can see it here. I had started this update the following day but then got sidetracked and am just getting back to finishing it. Here were my thoughts from the day after… So, the whuppin’ came and […]

It has been over a couple of months since my last “woodshed whuppin’”. And it shows. My teasing has gone up, my arrogance has gone up and my household duties have slipped. This weekend we were tag team cleaning our bedroom and she asked me for help with something and I quipped, “Hey, you don’t […]

In our house, when I assign my husband a punishment spanking, there are rules that I have created to make sure his punishments are consistent and effective. Below are the current rules I gave him with some added detail. Sentencing – If I am wearing the implement to be used for the spanking (like my […]

So what are “Real Spankings”? Well for us and most importantly it is consensual. Meaning both my Wife and I have already agreed to real spanking consequence for me. But even with the verbiage “consensual spanking”, that generally has a connotation of being a fun spanking. And while it certainly can be, it can also […]

While the majority of people look at functionality and fashion of belts, There are quite a few of us that have a fuller understanding of what they are capable in the disciplinary sense. It may be foreign to the younger generation but when I was a kid, getting threatened OR actually GETTING the belt was […]