I’ve got a quick question for you all. I’ve noticed that it seems there are a lot of people who are into, or desire a good “hand spanking”. I guess if it is for fun, then that makes more sense to me. But for a punishment spanking…I have no desire to give Joey a spanking with my hand. I think I’ve stated it before…HE’S the one who has earned a spanking…why should MY hand sting? 😅
My exceptions to spanking with my hand would be…
Fun Spanking – we don’t do a lot of those anymore. But even in this scenario, I would still rather use one of my thuddy sandals or other thuddy implements instead of my hand. Of course, understanding that Joey can take quite a lot of swats, that might be part of the reason why I wouldn’t want to use my hand. 🤔
Playful Swat – If I see Joey bending over or just standing and I happen to be walking behind him, there’s a 50/50 chance I’m going to swat his butt. He does this to me too, but not over-zealously (for obvious reasons).
Reminder Swat – If he’s had a recent spanking (and his butt still is sore), and he doesn’t respond as I think he should, or maybe even gets a “little” lippy with me…I will swat him hard on the butt with my hand to remind him of what happened and what can STILL happen. But again, in this situation, I will more often take off one of my sandals and swat him instead of using my hand.
But when taking him to the woodshed, aka giving him a punishment spanking, I am using a fairly effective (read: harsh) implement, or implements, to mete out the discipline. Giving Joey a spanking with my hand in that situation would be a much welcome “warm-up” for him.
Now having explained MY thoughts on the matter, it doesn’t change the fact that there appears to be a lot of hand spanking people out there. And my hats off to you all. As we’ve stated before, there is no “wrong” way to spank…as long as safe, sane and happening between two consenting adults.
So…Let’s hear from some of you in the comments.
Do you like to give/get hand spankings? If so, what do you like about them?
Have a great day and I’m looking forward to hearing from you all. 🙂