While our domestic discipline relationship mostly revolves around spankings (and boy, does Joey know it), I’ve heard from many of you who employ a variety of other discipline methods in your relationships. Some of you have physical limitations, others live in apartments with thin walls, and some just appreciate having a diverse “toolkit” for maintaining […]
Is Consensual Spanking Actually on the Rise? (Spoiler: Oh, Yes It Is!)
Hey there! Can you believe it, another blog post?! Today I’m diving into a topic that’s been making quite the impact lately—pun absolutely intended! 😈 Back in 2021, Joey wrote the blog post Spankers Are Among Us, and I was curious, now four years later, if the trend is on the way up, or on […]
Spanking Machine FAQs: Everything You Need to Know Before Buying
Hey there, Joey here — your resident expert on all things related to the spanking machine. Yep, that’s me! Usually, it’s Jess who handles most of the messages we get through our contact form or whichever platform people find us on. But over the past year or so, she’s been forwarding me some of the […]
Two Letters – One Spanking
During our hiatus, one of our longtime online friends jackbrat, noticed it has been a while, and offered to do a guest post for us. Thanks jackbrat! We appreciate you, and that was very kind! With that said…here is a GREAT blog post from our friend jackbrat. Well done, if I do say so myself! […]
The Importance of Aftercare
Happy 2025 Everyone! Wow, I can’t believe our last post was in October of 2024! Someone should get the belt for that! I propose that be Joey. 🤔 Anyway let’s start this up again, shall we? While we may have referred to it in a post or two, I’m surprised that we haven’t written a […]
How 25 Years of Consensual Spanking Improved Our Relationship
I was initially thinking I’d title this post, “Trust, Love, & Discipline”, but decided on making the statement a little more direct. I also recently realized that while we have a lot of followers of our blog, we often are found by someone that knows nothing about what we do. So, I thought I’d write […]
Joey’s Pain Threshold
Someone reached out to me via Facebook Messenger recently, mentioning that they had watched one or two of our videos. They made a slighted comment about Joey crying out during one of the spankings. While comments like this are rare, they immediately indicate to me that the person commenting has no real understanding of what […]
Communication In Spanking FTW
I recently updated my computer and was going through some old files and came across a letter (ok, Word document), that I sent to Jess after a spanking she gave me 10 years ago! As it was already delivered to her, and served the purpose of communicating my thoughts and feedback from the spanking she […]
Spanking Machine Tips & Tricks
In case you hadn’t seen yet, we’ve started selling a spanking machine! We’ve actually worked out a deal with the manufacturer, so we can offer them at a discount to the readers of our blog. And I’m happy to report that they are starting to sell pretty well. More spankings happening across America! “You get […]
Embarrassed and Humiliated?
On a couple occasions now, Jess and I have read and heard from readers about how embarrassed I must feel when Jess humiliates me as part of the spanking process. I found that interesting because I’ve never felt “embarrassed OR humiliated” before, during or after a spanking. One gentleman on Quora, wondered how I could […]








