This is a follow up to my “WHUPPIN’ IS COMING” post. If you haven’t read that yet, you can see it here. I had started this update the following day but then got sidetracked and am just getting back to finishing it. Here were my thoughts from the day after… So, the whuppin’ came and […]

It has been over a couple of months since my last “woodshed whuppin’”. And it shows. My teasing has gone up, my arrogance has gone up and my household duties have slipped. This weekend we were tag team cleaning our bedroom and she asked me for help with something and I quipped, “Hey, you don’t […]

In our house, when I assign my husband a punishment spanking, there are rules that I have created to make sure his punishments are consistent and effective. Below are the current rules I gave him, with some added detail. Sentencing – If I am wearing the implement to be used for the spanking (like my […]

So what are “Real Spankings”? Well, for us (and most importantly), it is consensual. Both my wife and I have already agreed to real spankings as a consequence of my transgressions and/or poor attitude. I also think it’s important to point out that the verbiage “consensual spanking” generally has the connotation of being a fun […]

While the majority of people look at functionality and fashion of belts, There are quite a few of us that have a fuller understanding of what they are capable in the disciplinary sense. It may be foreign to the younger generation but when I was a kid, getting threatened OR actually GETTING the belt was […]

The Razor Strap (Strop) We never had a woodshed growing up but I remember reading about or seeing them in old movies, where misbehaving kids would get taking to the woodshed for a whuppin’. The implement used was often a leather razor strop, which was common back in the old days as men used it […]

While the majority of the spankings I get now are disciplinary spankings, on occasion I still get “fun” spankings. So I wanted to create a post about important elements that should be part of a “fun spanking”. For the record, this is how it all started for Jess and I. Early on in our relationship, […]

When viewing spanking images or videos online, I’m amazed at how many people fantasize about receiving a real spanking. I understand, as I was once in that position too. For those of us who are aroused by spanking, it’s easy to watch a spanking with excitement and think, “Yes, I need that!” I’ve seen comments […]

So, where to begin. Well in the interest of keeping SOME anonymity I’m not going to get too detailed about myself. But I’ll give some background to give you an idea of our situation. I’m a happily married guy who has an awesomely sexy wife. And YES, that’s us in the picture on the right, […]