If you have been following Jess and I on our journey here, you already know that accountability isn’t just a theoretical concept, it is lived, practiced, and sometimes felt very acutely on my backside. Without getting into the granular details of my misbehavior, let’s just say there are certain boundaries Jess and I have established […]

It’s been a minute since I’ve posted – and my wonderful and sometimes Wicked Queen, has suggested that I write about this very topic. A Tale From the Other Side of the Paddle, if you will. If you’ve been following this blog for a while, you know I’ve covered a lot of ground. I’ve written […]

OUCH. Okay, let’s start with some honesty—I began this post a few months back and completely forgot about it. Yesterday, Jess comes strolling into my office holding the Wicked Strap (with that look every man dreads). My heart sank as I muttered, “What’d I do?” She says—super calm but not exactly warm—“Pull up that post […]

Hey there, Joey here — your resident expert on all things related to the spanking machine. Yep, that’s me! Usually, it’s Jess who handles most of the messages we get through our contact form or whichever platform people find us on. But over the past year or so, she’s been forwarding me some of the […]

I recently updated my computer and was going through some old files and came across a letter (ok, Word document), that I sent to Jess after a spanking she gave me 10 years ago! As it was already delivered to her, and served the purpose of communicating my thoughts and feedback from the spanking she […]

In case you hadn’t seen yet, we’ve started selling a spanking machine! We’ve actually worked out a deal with the manufacturer, so we can offer them at a discount to the readers of our blog. And I’m happy to report that they are starting to sell pretty well. More spankings happening across America! “You get  […]

On a couple occasions now, Jess and I have read and heard from readers about how embarrassed I must feel when Jess humiliates me as part of the spanking process. I found that interesting because I’ve never felt “embarrassed OR humiliated” before, during or after a spanking. One gentleman on Quora, wondered how I could […]

After answering some questions about the spanking machine we are selling, someone on Quora had additional questions for me regarding self-spanking. As you might guess, I haven’t had to self-spank with the Jess around. 😅 However, there was a time before my Queen when I not only attempted to self-spank but actually learned to do […]

The other day, Jess and I were chatting about all the messages and emails we’ve been getting this year. It’s been cool to see so many new couples getting into domestic discipline or thinking about giving it a try. So we thought it might be helpful to talk about what we think are the most […]

I had the house to myself last night, and so I started perusing through Netflix to see if there was anything good to watch. That is harder than it sounds, as Jess and I share a lot of similar likes in movies/shows, and so I didn’t want to watch something that was already on our […]