Growing up, my siblings and I feared my Dad more than my Mom from a disciplinary perspective; yet it was my Mom who was the actual disciplinarian in the house. This was mostly due to the fact that she was a stay at home Mom and my Dad went to work every day except Sundays. […]

The Insane Pain of the Cane Way back when we were doing spankings for fun, looking for “harsh” implements wasn’t that scary because I always knew there was a quick way out in the form of my safeword. As my Wife may have mentioned in a post or two…I have always been one to try […]

As some of our readers may already know, I gave my husband quite the belt whuppin’ a couple weeks ago. If you haven’t see it already, here’s his account of that domestic discipline spanking over the coffee table. He still has some marks and bruising from that spanking, along with a good attitude and good […]

Normally when my wife spanks me, it happens in our bedroom or if I was really bad…our bedroom becomes deemed the “Woodshed” and I get taken “to the Woodshed” for a particularly harsh spanking. But this past Saturday night, I realized that coffee table spankings are not too far behind woodshed whuppins. To be honest, […]

Hello My Fellow Ladies In Charge… Today I wanted to tell you about my husband’s A.T.S. (Accountability Task Sheet). A wonderful tool that will help keep your husbands or boyfriends on point when it comes to helping with household tasks, chores and the proverbial “honey do” lists. If you’re familiar with our blog, you already […]

Growing up, I gratefully never received a spanking with a switch. I had only read about them or seen it portrayed on old TV shows or movies. And in most cases it didn’t look that bad, based on the reaction of the actor receiving it (because it wasn’t really happening). That perception was my downfall […]

While my husband and I are very compatible and share a lot of interests, we also have a couple things that we like to do on our own. For example, I like to read and he likes to play video games on occasion. He’s not a HUGE gamer but he’ll get a game every once […]

Quite a few years ago, I had tasked my husband with creating a spanking calculator that would randomly pick an implement and randomly pick a number of swats or lashes. He figured out how to do it on an Excel spreadsheet. Then I had him tweak it to have 3 parts to the spanking. At […]

I often am inspired to write on topics based on requests from our readers or the comments left on some of our blog posts. One reader recently suggested writing a piece about how a man can ask his wife or gf to try a spanking relationship. So, after giving it some thought, figured I would […]

We had a great relationship before incorporating REAL spankings into our lives, but we both feel domestic discipline has added new levels of closeness, trust, and love into our relationship. Just one of the reasons I think there is a lot of benefit to domestic discipline spankings is that it reduces unnecessary tension that can […]