DD Spanking Update From The Wicked Queen

Hello everyone! On behalf of Joey and myself, we want to apologize for not putting up any new content in over a month. The reason for that is that Joey and I recently sold our house and bought a new one! And with that, we have been very busy with cleaning, packing and moving these […]

Spanking Implements – Readers Choice

UPDATE: 07-19-21: The People Have Spoken! See the Results of the Voting Below: For those of you who purchased and watched Joey’s last trip to the woodshed…first off – Thank You! Secondly…I’m sure it won’t come as a shock to you that I had a very well behaved husband for some time immediately after. Not […]

Boys Will Be Boys

All throughout our long relationship, it has not been uncommon for Joey to smack my ass. So, you might be asking yourself, “How the hell does he get away with THAT in a FLR DD relationship? Much less, with the Wicked Queen?!?” Right? I can’t say I “love” it but I don’t hate it enough […]

Spang King – Do YOU Want One?

Hey all! I mentioned in my last post about the shirt Jess was wearing during my last woodshed whuppin’ and how we were working with the company to try and get free shipping. For all us spankos out there, these shirts are right up our alley! The shirt has a play on words for “Spanking” […]

Our World of DD (& Hybrid FLR)

Welcome to our website about domestic discipline and hybrid FLR. We are an actual couple that practices consensual domestic discipline from a Female to male perspective (F/m, Fm). However, there are many tips included herein pertaining to spanking that should benefit any spanker (sorry spankees!). Tips such as traveling with spanking implements, tricks to increase the effectiveness (pain level) of an implement, punishment spanking rules and more!

The blog section will be added to most often. This will cover some of the topics above but also provide accounts of actual spankings that my husband has received from me. Some blogs are written by me and some are written by my husband. This should provide a good perspective from both a top (spanker) and bottom (spankee).

domestic discipline hero sandals and spanking implements

The stories are true as are the spankings. These are consensual but very real domestic discipline spankings. “Consensual” for us, means that my husband has asked to be held accountable for his actions and misdeeds and has consented to receiving actual punishment spankings accordingly. There are no warm up swats, no rubbing his butt or long pauses between swats during the spanking. And the swats are coming hard and one right after another. It is a rough experience for him. I commend him on being brave and tough enough to take what I dish out. Because let me tell you…it is oftentimes very harsh.

belt spanking over bedEven though the spankings I give him are very real and very painful (even to the point of tears), he has told me on many occasions that he appreciates me holding him accountable in this way. He has told me that he feels no resentment for the spanking as it was earned and that he feels a sense of calm and balance afterwards. Side note…after a good spanking…he is a model citizen around here – very eager to please, in a great mood and very productive!

Contrary to what some might think, we DO love each other very much AND respect each other. There is no corner time, or belittling or degrading him. That’s not what we’re about. We are just a married couple who have evolved into this domestic spanking agreement and over the years have realized that it is a very effective way to enforce rules and address transgressions around our home. At the same time, it significantly reduces the amount of tension between us. For example, has your husband ever done something repeatedly that gets on your last freaking nerve? I think we’ve all heard the infamous “leaves the toilet seat up” complaint. You nag him about it, and even though he is probably not trying to intentionally piss you off by leaving it up, he just doesn’t think about it when he’s going to the bathroom. Why? Because there is no consequence for him in that situation. And so you continue nagging (aka bitching) and he continues to get annoyed, roll his eyes, and likely even laugh about it with his friends. Well, I assure you…if he got a REAL spanking every time he left the seat up, his butt would make the connection to his brain pretty quickly and he’d start remembering to put the seat back down after he is done. No nagging, no yelling, no annoyance, no tension between the two of you. Rule was broken, it was addressed (real holding razor strapconsequence/real spanking), and a new and improved habit was formed, thus eliminating this tension point from here on out. And even if he were to forget a month or two down the road, I find that I don’t get annoyed because in my position of power, I know exactly what I’m going to do to address it and eliminate it. I have a recent blog post about this type of thing called “Breaking His Bad Habits“.

This lifestyle has worked very well for us. On all other accounts, we’re very “normal” people. In fact, none of our family and friends know or suspect anything about “this thing of ours”. And, we’re often told that we’re one of the happiest, most in-love couples they know.

At any rate, there is more on the About Us page, so check it out along with our previous and forthcoming blog posts.

Thanks for reading!

Love and Lashes,

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