Where There’s A Whip, There’s a Way

Jess and I have been working on adding certain spanking implements to our site. As many of you know, we started off with the now infamous Wicked Switch. God I hate that thing. It’s funny in that, when Jess first suggested I make some to sell on our site, I laughed and told her that I don’t think anyone is going to buy it because of how I’ve talked about how bad it hurts. 😂

Yet, to this day, we get requests for it all the time. As Jess mentioned a blog post or two ago, we’re looking to do another run of them in the not too distant future. But I’m not sure how long it will be before I make them again after that. As she has mentioned, and I’m here to tell you personally…they are a pain in the ass to make.

So here’s the latest and greatest game plan…

First, we’ve just added our Wicked Whips to our spanking implements offering. Hence the reason for this post.

Not going to lie, the first time I picked it up, I immediately felt nervous. To which 10 seconds later, that feeling was amplified tenfold when Jess said, “Hand that to me Joey.” And you know how she can be, she said it kind of sternly, with “the look” on her face. To which started my mind racing as I thought…what did I do? Is she going to spank me with that right now? Is she thinking of WHIPPING me with that thing? *shudders*

But after she had it in her hand and was playing around with it, two things happened. One, I was relieved because I could tell she was just checking it out and no immediate spanking/whipping was coming. And two, she looked sexy as hell handling that whip. So much so, I wanted to take her to bed right then and there! LOL

So, I wanted to talk a little more about this spanking implement. But I guess we should address the whip/whipping nomenclature first. So it is definitely a whip, a short rubber single tailed whip. But…we won’t use it for whipping, (right Jess? 😬). We have in the past, a LONG time ago, played around with a couple of bullwhips. And there is this one bullwhip we have, which is a real leather bullwhip we got on vacation one time in Mexico. I remember there were a bunch of these bullwhips hanging on this hook in a store we walked into. At this time Jess and I were already playing around with spankings and such, but weren’t yet doing the domestic discipline thing yet. It was pretty much just fun spankings. Anyway, I spotted them and we walked over to them to check them out. The store owner came over and said, “Ah, those give good Mexican back massage.” 😂 And Jess didn’t miss a beat. She quickly replied, “Oh, I like to give him back massages.” as she reached up and pulled one down. I should’ve know she would become my Wicked Queen from that moment.

But the reality of it was, we weren’t into heavy pain or whipping at all. It was just going to be a sexy prop. Or so I thought. I need to find it (or maybe not 🤔). But it is a short whip. Probably only 4 feet long. The leather is tan to light brown, but the leather is dense and kind of “hard”. Certainly not soft. It has a black wooden handle. Anyway, she played around with it, like walking into the bedroom with it, lightly giving my butt some lashes. But we never really did real impact play with it. Until one time, she brought it to bed, and we were doing a variety of our foreplay things, when she picked it up. I don’t remember what she said, but it was something about whipping me. I was very turned on, and of course had no idea what a whip to the back really felt like, and so I rolled over onto my stomach and said, “Have at it.” Well she did and let me tell you…that pain “cut” right through me. She didn’t swing it SUPER hard, but it was fairly hard. At this time in our spanking escapades, she knew she could spank me pretty hard, and I was good to go for a while before using my safeword. But the pain from this was so bad, that tears immediately came to my eyes. To this day, I don’t know why I didn’t safeword out after the first lash. But I got through I think 4, maybe 5 lashes and I cried out my safeword. And when I did, I literally cried it out. This surprised Jess as she had no idea she was hurting me this bad. She felt bad, apologized and laid next to me holding me, and caressing my hair. Telling me she how sorry she was. 😢

I actually felt bad for HER, feeling bad for ME. lol

By the way, this reminds me that whenever impact play is happening, good communication it vital. Don’t skip it.

So, we talked about it and decided that the whip would not be part of our normal play, but…if I did something really bad, we’d talk about me potentially getting lashes with the whip on my bare back for it. Yes, this was actually in play before my request to bring DD into our every day lives. And over the next 10 years, there were a couple of times where she took the whip to my back as a punishment/deterrent/discipline. And yes, I consented to each whipping as it was well deserved. It was only like 10 lashes each time, but boy did they leave quite an impression, bring forth the tears, and leave some decent the marks on my back. (But nothing permanent.)

Fast forward a few more years, when I reached out to Jess about incorporating DD into our relationship, I hadn’t seen the whip at all during that time. In fact, I think we both forgot about it. Plus we had a plethora of spanking implements that were ALL very capable of giving good and REAL spankings.

Anyway, circling back to the term whipping. For us a whipping is getting whipped on the back with some sort of whip. But…we’ve heard, and Jess has sometimes used, “I’ll whip your butt.”, when I’ve been charming her in one way or another. 😁

We’ve also heard the term butt whipping. Which to us, means getting spanked/whipped on the butt with a whip. But we’ve come to understand it can also just mean a spanking.

There is also the term “belt whipping”. Which to us means holding a belt in single tail fashion (not doubled over), and either whipping the butt or the back. But to reiterate, we no longer do back whippings here.

Why? I supposed if Jess felt the need to kick things up a notch, she could present the option of bringing the whip out, and give back lashings. But, to be honest, many of you who have seen pictures or video of the spankings she gives…she doesn’t really need to kicks things up a notch. And when she does, she has the Wicked Switch or Wicked Strap to go to, without marking up my back.

Anyway, somewhere along the line, she started to use the term “whuppin'”. Like…”Keep it up and you’re gonna’ get a whuppin’.” And as you know, she started using the term “woodshed whuppin'”, which now has a very strong meaning in this household. I’ll have to ask her why she started using the “whuppin’ term. I don’t remember her using it when we were younger. If I had to guess, I would say it comes from when she was a kid, and she heard it in the midwest? IDK, but I’m sure she’ll chime in, in the comments, or update this post.

So…back to this whip. For us, we’re going to have it on hand, and while I don’t know for sure, I fully suspect it is going to be right up there with the Wicked Switch in terms of its ability to cause severe pain. BUT…it is going to be used like the switch, where the lashes are given on my butt and upper backs of the legs.

But this thing is a beauty, and as Jess describes in her product overview, it can be used in a variety of ways. Lightly for fun spankings. Medium strokes for more serious spankings, and harder strokes for punishment and/or harder players.

Another thing that Jess really likes about it, is that there was a reader who he and his wife had incorporated spankings into their lives. But his wife was currently unable to swing a paddle or even a belt with much force. So, an implement like this could possibly be something that she could use with minimal effort, yet still get good results.

And as I stated above…just seeing her hold this thing, and swing it around, it is quite intoxicating.

Additionally, we are going to shoot a short video of her holding it and moving it around, kind of like we did with her Wicked Italian Leather Belt. Video really gives you a better idea of how it moves around. Oh, and it wasn’t all but 30 seconds of her holding it, when I got to hear the “lovely” sound of it cutting through the air, as she did some practice swings. Of course, giving me a Wicked Queen menacing look right afterwards. I literally had a lump in my throat. One thing is for sure, I don’t look forward to feeling this thing AT ALL. And I’m hopeful it is used as sparingly as the Wicked Switch. But I can tell she is kind of eager to try it out, so I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t incorporate into a spanking at some point in the not too distant future.

Anyway, if you wish to be one of the first to experience this…here you go! The Wicked Queen’s Wicked Whip.