When viewing spanking images or videos online, I’m amazed at how many people fantasize about receiving a real spanking. I understand, as I was once in that position too. For those of us who are aroused by spanking, it’s easy to watch a spanking with excitement and think, “Yes, I need that!”
I’ve seen comments and notes on harsh spanking videos or pictures, with people saying things like, “She could do that to me for days!” or “I would want her to use a thicker cane on me.”
However, after experiencing both real spankings and fun or fantasy spankings, I know for a fact that real spankings are not enjoyable, and you don’t want more of it while it’s happening. In fact, if you are getting a spanking and wishing for more or for it to be harder, it’s a sign that it’s not a real spanking.
If you are desperate for a spanking to end, chances are you’re experiencing the real thing.
Looking at a picture of a hot girl holding a paddle can be very sexy and a great subject for fantasies about receiving a caning. With a warm-up spanking and light strokes of the cane, it could be an enjoyable experience. However, if she is swinging full force on your bare butt without any warm-up, it is extremely painful.
The animated spanking GIF here is of Nessa using our Red Cane of Pain on me. Oh yeah, that was fun. 🙄 If you’ve seen any of our spanking videos where she takes me to the woodshed, you know that she doesn’t hold back.In fact, the last time she spanked me with the red cane, that’s what broke me down and brought forth the tears. She has yet to use the soaked rattan cane on me, and if she never does, that’ll be just fine with me. But she knows of it and is asking Jess for tips on using it. Anyhow, when used in a harsh manner, the cane will wreck your backside, and you’ll be feeling it for days.
So it begs the question: Can you enjoy a real spanking? In my opinion, NO. You can enjoy the before and the effects after, but during? If it is a REAL punishment spanking, then I really don’t think so. Again, just talking about a REAL SPANKING: no warm-up, no long pauses between swats, no rubbing of the butt. Just one hard swat after another.
It’s possible that you can get to the point where endorphins are supposed to kick in and help out with pain, but I’ve been spanked many times (for real), and my endorphins must’ve been on vacation or are broken because I couldn’t wait for the spanking to end.
The other possibility is that people who are spanked so often have what is deemed “leather butt,” which means the nerves have been pretty much spanked to death, so I guess they could enjoy the impact as it is missing the big pain part. IDK, and to each their own. I don’t have a leather butt (and don’t want one), and so right now, for me, real spankings hurt. For real! 😉
So quick summation: Fantasy = pleasuring yourself while looking at spanking pics or watching spanking videos or just thinking about spanking while aroused. Real spankings = no warm-up, bare butt, swinging for the fences from the first swat with a harsh implement (sorry, foam flip-flops don’t count), to punish for an infraction of some sort.
For more about my take on real spankings, check out some of the blog posts below.
I been spanked with ever sandal and flip flop you own in your whole closet shoe collection of sandals. I was spanked with every sandal you can think of.Great spanking tool.
it sounds so arousing but then so real – red/purple buttocks OMG !