Happy New Years everyone! Joey and I would like to take a quick moment and thank you all for finding, reading and/or commenting on our blog. We are very grateful for you all and have been blown away by the number of visitors we now receive and are looking to reach even more. We’ve heard from so many people and couples that have started incorporating some iteration of this into their relationships and how well it is working for them. We love the feedback they’ve given and insight to their situations, that they have provided.
We hope you all enjoyed the holidays. Joey and I took some time off, unplugged a bit and just enjoyed family, friends and each other. It was a nice break but the other day we realized that it has been since just before Christmas, that we last posted something! So it is time to roll up the sleeves and get back at it.
In a previous post of mine, Why Women Should Consider F/m Spanking Relationship, I had mentioned that Joey will on occasion set a goal and actually ask me for accountability by way of a real spanking repercussions if he doesn’t reach said goal. BTW, if you think he would intentionally NOT make his goal just to get a spanking from me…you haven’t been reading our blog. 😉
As a matter of fact, of all the times he’s done this over the years, there was only one time he didn’t make a goal he set out to do. There were some circumstances beyond his control that hindered his ability to make his goal but he came very close. When he first set out to accomplish his goal, he had proposed 50 lashes with the cane (this was before the invention of the Wicked Switch), if he didn’t make his goal. Due to the circumstances, I decided to give another week to finish the goal, but gave him 10 penalty lashes with the cane and told him that the full 50 would be administered if he did not make it by then. He finished his goal 4 days later.
So anyway, Joey and I were talking about New Year’s resolutions the other day when he mentioned that he was planning on eating better, getting back in shape and that he wanted to lose around 10 lbs. The following day he told me he joined an online group where he has to lose 4% of his body weight within 4 weeks or he loses his entrance fee of $50. Anyone who has tried to lose weight, knows it can be a bit of a challenge. To do it right, requires changes to one’s lifestyle by way of eating and exercising. It can be very easy to postpone starting a workout or weight-loss plan, or to keep re-starting a plan.
He knows this as well, and so HE approached ME with the added incentive:
“If I don’t make this goal, I propose that you give me a lash with the Wicked Switch. One lash for every dollar.”
Without any hesitation, I replied, “Done.” To which he kind of chucked at my perhaps…quick and eager response. If you’ve read my post, Late Fee Spanking, you’ll know that I despise the idea of just “throwing money away”.
Right then and there, I figured there is a good chance he will make his goal, because he DESPISES the Wicked Switch. The consequence of him losing $50 doesn’t really mean that much to him. But the consequence of him getting 50 lashes with the switch is something that holds much more power. Ah, pain can be quite the incentive!
And so in 2 or 3 more weeks, I’ll either update this post or do a new one. If he makes his goal weight, it will likely just be an update to this point. But if by some chance he doesn’t, then it’ll be a post about how the 50 lashes with the Wicked Switch went down along with pictures of his wrecked backside.
UPDATE: Joey made his goal! Like I said, knowing how much he fears and hates the switch, I was pretty sure that he was going to do what he needed to do to make his goal weight. But I DID have some fun reminding him of the consequences if he didn’t. 🙂