Joey’s Pain Threshold

Someone reached out to me via Facebook Messenger recently, mentioning that they had watched one or two of our videos. They made a slighted comment about Joey crying out during one of the spankings. While comments like this are rare, they immediately indicate to me that the person commenting has no real understanding of what a REAL spanking feels like. Admittedly, there may be some exceptions, but the truth is that people who can endure a punishment like Joey—or take even more—are extremely rare.

Yes, there are people who will show off a completely battered backside, but more often than not, if you could see how it got to that point, you’d notice things like a warm-up spanking, long pauses, rubbing the butt, and so on.

I’d be hesitant to do that with Joey because he’d take that warm-up and run with it. However, his skin would give out before his tolerance or willpower did—the freakin’ hard-head. 🤨

If you look at ANY of our spanking videos, you’ll notice that before I start spanking him, his backside is NOT warmed-up before the spanking at all. I’ve seen many spanking videos where someone is supposed to be getting a real spanking, but then when they are told to pull down their pants and underwear, you can see their bottoms are red and already marked up from previous swats.

Spankos in the know understand that warming up a bottom before a spanking helps the spankee endure more punishment. Of course, some of these scenarios may occur because the spanking is scripted, and one of the participants in the spanking video forgets their “lines,” requiring a reshoot of that part of the scene.

This brings me to my next point: the spankings we give Joey are not scripted. We set up the cameras, lights, and now microphones to capture the event as it naturally unfolds. When we turn the cameras on, you get to witness what a real “woodshed whuppin'” looks like in our home. I believe that’s quite unique among spanking videos.

Over the years, I’ve come to understand what Joey truly needs when it comes to discipline—what makes an impact and helps the lesson sink in. That includes knowing how many strokes are appropriate based on the situation. I typically choose the implements in advance, and once the spanking begins, we make a point not to stop the camera, so what you’re seeing is an authentic domestic discipline punishment from start to finish.

That said, I want to make it clear that my comments are not meant to criticize any of the spanking video creators. After recording our own sessions and seeing the effort it takes—setting up tripods, cameras, lights, and mics, and then editing the videos—I have to say, hats off to all video content creators. I’m simply pointing out that what we do is somewhat rare, and I think that’s pretty cool, if I do say so myself. 😉

Now, back to my badass husband…and his very capable backside.

Here’s a recent set of comments on Fetlife, where I posted the same picture as the first one in this blog post, showing me spanking Joey with the paddle.

“If I was ever taken to the woodshed, I’m pretty sure I would die there.” 🤣🤣

There are plenty of others, but I need to get going soon and don’t have the time to go through all the platforms to gather them. However, moving forward, I’ve created a folder where I’ll save screenshots of these kinds of comments to share in a follow-up post.

Even though it’s been a while, I still vaguely remember the sting of the paddle or the bite of the belt. But I was never like Joey—he has a way of constantly pushing boundaries. A close friend of ours, who had watched his spankings on video, gained a whole new level of respect after personally feeling some of the same implements Joey regularly gets disciplined with. Not long ago, while we were reviewing a few of our domestic discipline spanking videos, Joey shook his head and said, “Jeez, you were really wailing on me!” Our friend laughed, leaned over, and said to him, “Wow, you really are the GOAT.”

The last indicator of Joey’s ability to take a harsh punishment spanking, is that when people buy a Spanking Assignment from me, after they purchase it, our site sends out an “intake” questionnaire, asking things like what you did, what kind of implements do you have, if you’ll be doing your own spanking (self-spanking), or if someone will be doing it to you, along with other questions to help us determine and assign a very effective punishment spanking for the transgressions or misdeeds. One of the questions we ask is, “What is your pain threshold?” and give a scale from 1 to 5 that reads:

Scale: 1 being “I’m a wimp” and 5 being Joey-like or higher.

Not only do we rarely get a lot of 5’s, but people often go out of their way to mention that they’re not in the same “league” as Joey. Many will say something like, “I’m a ‘4,’ but yeah, I’m not ready for anything like what Joey gets.”

So, while I am often complimented on how hard I spank, I think it’s time to acknowledge my husband, who has consensually agreed to take these very real and harsh punishment spankings. To be honest, after the first time I used the Wicked White shower brush on him, I thought he was going to throw in the towel. But he’s still standing. And as long as he continues to need it, I’ll continue to give it to him. ❤