I had a comment today from one of our readers, asking if I spanked my husband in any areas other than the rear. Great question! So I thought I’d write a quick blog post about it. I had created a diagram a while back but never posted it, so this is a perfect time to do so. I’m also going to share a couple tips on how I spank to really get more bang for my buck.
Now before I get into the spanking zones, I want to share the 4 different types of spankings that I give him.
- Back On Track (Usually 5 to 10 swats) – These are quick, spur of the moment (usually at the house), spankings that come from him starting to pop off or be arrogant about something. He’ll usually say or do something that pisses me off or will directly defy me and so I’ll take off my belt or sandal and spank him right there on the spot. I could also argue that these aren’t “true” spankings in that the quantity of swats or lashes are so small, but…they ARE full force and usually have the desired effect of getting him back on track in regards to his behavior.
- A.T.S. Swats (Varies) – He is going to be posting about this soon. Quite a few years ago, I had him create an excel spreadsheet we call the “Accountability Task Sheet” or ATS for short. We both have our responsibilities around the house and his are listed on this spreadsheet. Every item has a number assigned to it. It’s an interactive spreadsheet, that when he does a task, the number next to it, goes to zero. Anyway, without getting into all the details that I’m sure he’ll cover in HIS post, the bottom line is that we review the ATS at the beginning of the new week and whatever tasks were not checked off, the spreadsheet will add them all up and there will be an accumulated sum that he has to pay for with his backside. The spreadsheet also has a list of my wicked implements that it’ll randomly select for the number of lashes he is to get. It really is a cool spreadsheet. Anyway, after the first few weeks of him slacking and paying dearly for it, he rarely misses anymore tasks on his list. BUT…it still does happen on occasion and so I listed it.
- Attitude Adjustment (Usually 30 to 40 swats/lashes) – If he’s lucky, he’ll get an attitude adjustment spanking from me, which will help him see the error of his ways and straighten him right up. If he’s NOT lucky, and I decide not to give him an attitude adjustment OR I just don’t get around to it; then he’ll continue to work his way towards the worst spanking of them all…
- Woodshed Whuppin’ (Usually 70 to 100 swats/lashes) – When I tell him, something to the effect of, “You just bought yourself a trip to the woodshed.” You can literally see the wind go out of his sails. Sometimes he’ll beg for a second chance which has the potential repercussion of him getting more swats after the woodshed session OR upgrading the implement to something more wicked. So, he’ll often just dejectedly settle down and fear the worst.
So…now that I’ve covered the types of spankings I give my husband. Here’s what I aim for when I’m laying on a whuppin’.
When I “wreck” his backside, I’m looking to WREAK his backside from the top of his butt to the upper backs of his legs. I want him to feel this spanking for days, so that when he sits, leans against something or gets into bed, he’s thinking about me. 😉
For the most part, a majority of the swats/lashes do land in between the “Red Zones”, but I do make sure to include a nice amount of swats/lashes in both red zones. Another suitable name for those red zones could be “quick tear zones” because I can get him to tear up pretty quickly after just a couple swats/lashes in those areas.
The only exception to this spanking zone is when I’m spanking him with a paddle. Then I ONLY spank his buttocks and steer clear of the upper red zone and just barely get into the bottom red zone.
Spanking Tip: When I’m spanking him with the belt, punishment strap, cane or switch, I will spank from both sides. Because the end of each of those implement, has a way of making a mark and a strong point as it slightly bends around the side of the butt. I’m careful to not have a wrap-around, but I just want to get the slightest wrap around to hit the side of his butt. I can tell by his reaction, that those hurt pretty bad too! But I want both sides of his butt to be on fire. I guess you could say I’m an equal opportunity butt wrecker.
The second part of this tip is to don’t make the mistake of walking back and forth every 4 or 5 swats in an effort to spank him from both sides. That’s WAY too many breaks in a discipline spanking for a bad behind. Instead, give him a good 20 to 30 in a row, before you even think switching sides. Between the accumulation of swats/lashes and the “one right after another” approach, your man is going to break down at some point. My husband is pretty tough, very athletic and has a high pain tolerance. But in about 95% of his woodshed whuppin’s, I’ve brought him to tears.
Afterwards, he’ll have these marks for days or longer. The belt will leave some blisters and bruises which last for weeks, the cane and switch can leave marks that will last for 3 weeks or more. There are a couple sandals that I have that are worthy of giving a woodshed whuppin’…IF I put him over my knee and leg lock him in, then spank fast and furiously back and forth between the same few spots, I can blister his butt pretty good and those blisters will be around for about a week or two.
The last thing I’ll mention is that after a few days, I’ll come swat or poke his behind…JUST to remind him of the power I have, and the pain & punishment I can bring.