Sandal Associations

I, like many women LOVE shoes. And for me…my shoes of choice are sandals. Flat sandals, thong sandals, t-strap sandals, toe ring sandals…I love ’em all! I love the look of them, the feel of them and even the sound of them when I walk around. I enjoy dangling them as I sit and watch TV or read and have noticed that apparently my husband likes that too! 😉 I also LOVE the fact that most can double as mini spanking paddles incognito.

That said…not all sandals are great for spanking. In fact, there are only a handful of sandals I own, that can actually teach my husband a really good lesson. A pair of jelly sandals, a plastic thong sandal with a heavy sole and an all leather t-strap sandal with a solid leather sole are the 3 main ones that come to mind as being capable of wrecking his backside. They key to a good spanking sandal is having a dense, somewhat flexible sole with some decent weight to it.

Speaking of soles…

As I covered in my article about sandals as spanking implements. Here’s an easy tip to increase the sting of just about any sandal you may have. And that is by spanking him with the heel end instead of the wide end. It is natural to take off your sandal and grab the area where your heel goes, as it is thinner and easy to grab. But if you can hold the sandal by the area where your toes go and spank him with the heel of the sandal…that spanking will sting a lot more!

The first time I spanked my husband with the heel of one of my sandals, he realized very quickly that something was different. He had been swatted with these sandals before but they had never brought him that much pain and so he immediately started trying to talk his way out of it. Which by the way, only made his spanking worse! When I decide I’m going to spank him…he’s earned it and deserves it. So when he tries to talk his way out of it, that only pisses me off and adds swats to his spanking. At any rate, spanking with the heel of the sandal can get you by in a pinch. Like out and about somewhere and you only have a certain pair of sandals, then spanking with the heel will usually get you by or do the job quite well.

It is easy to see the reason for the increased sting of the heel. Most sandals have a small pancake heel  or gradual wedge that adds weight to the heel end of the sandal. It is a dense area that while it doesn’t cover as much of his backside, it makes up for it with its increased STING!

At any rate…back to my original point of this post…

There are many sandals that I wear that even the “heel trick” won’t do much to teach him a lesson. So…I came up with the idea of “sandal associations”. Now usually when I take my husband to the woodshed, I’m not using a sandal for that spanking. I am tanning his hide with something much more wicked. So I decided that I would associate different implements with different pairs of my favorite sandals. Sandals that are not capable of teaching him a good lesson by themselves.

I normally tell him when I’m taking him to the woodshed (which, by the way is just our nomenclature for him getting a severe and very real discipline spanking – we don’t actually have a woodshed). And I usually tell him what he’s getting it with. For example, I might tell him something like, “You just earned yourself a trip to the woodshed…Tonight…With the Italian leather belt.” I started telling him because I want him to think about and fret about the forthcoming spanking up to the moment it begins. He knows how bad that belt hurts and how hard I spank with it. He knows that his backside is going to get wrecked and that he’ll be sleeping on his stomach. I like the thought that his mischievous mind has to deal with a little mental anguish due to his actions.

So, when I wear the Italian leather belt, I often wear a pair of brown Rainbow sandals that match it in color. But oftentimes I’ll wear those sandals without a belt. And while the top part of that sandal is leather, the bottom sole of that sandal is made with a lightweight foam type material, so it is not a good sandal for spanking. So when I decided to associate these sandals with that belt, I took him to the woodshed and had him kneel before me. I started taking off my belt, (which the sight and sounds of me doing that, give him fearful moments), I told him to look down at the sandals on my feet. By this time, I already had my belt off, doubled over and was holding it so the looped end was within his view. He could see my feet wearing the Rainbow sandals and my meanest belt (which I ever so slightly swung it back and forth). I told him, “From here on…these are my belt whuppin’ sandals. When I wear these, it could be that I just wanted to wear them…OR…it could be that your ass is getting the belt later that day.” I then told him to assume the position (which means – walk over to the end of our bed, pull down your pants and underwear and bend over the end of the bed). He did so and I gave him a severe and harsh belt spanking. After the spanking was over and still holding the doubled over belt, I walked over to a big lounge chair in our room, sat down, crossed my legs and held the belt again in a manner that the looped end was by my sandaled feet. I had him to come over and kneel before me again and look at my feet and sandals (and belt). Asked him if he learned his lesson, which of course he did, I just wrecked his backside! I once again reminded him that these were now my belt whuppin’ sandals and if that association was clear to him or did he need more discussion to help him make that association. Of course he said he didn’t and his spanking was over. Now, ever since that time, when he’s gotten it with that belt, I make sure I wear those sandals. Sometimes, I tell him he’s going to the woodshed and to bring me my “belt whuppin’ sandals” or even bring me my Rainbow sandals and he knows right then and there…he’s getting it with the meanest belt in the house.

Now, when I wear these sandals WITHOUT my belt…he still takes notice and I’ve seen him correct his own behavior right after noticing these sandals on my feet. These sandals now mean something more to him than just his wife’s footwear. They have become almost as powerful a reminder of the belt as the belt itself.

Over the years, I’ve created a sandal association for every woodshed whuppin’ implement in my arsenal.

• A pair of light tan thong sandals I have associated with The Cane

• A pair of dark brown sandals I’ve associated with The Razor Strap
• A black pair of leather sandals I have associated with a mean black leather belt
• A pair of sandals that have holes patterned in them, I have associated my Spencer paddle
• A black pair of sandals with a flower on them have been associated with my Wicked Switch

• A black toe ring pair of sandals have been associated with my Black Leather Punishment Strap
• Another brown pair of leather flip flops are associated with my Brown Wooden Paddle
• A light tan t-strap pair of sandals are associated with my Wooden Bath Brush
• A light brown pair of studded gladiator sandals are associated with a Leather Punishment Strap with Rivets
• A thick leather soled pair of t-strap sandals are associated with themselves
• A Mexican pair of huaraches sandals with a tire sole (we call La Chancla) are associated with themselves

And I’ve actually associated a few pairs of sandals with my Italian leather belt as it is the belt I like to use often for his punishments.As I mentioned, when I’ve told him he is going to get it later on today, I like to wear the associated pair of sandals all day long so that he can see them and dread what is coming.

This has a WONDERFUL added benefit of encouraging him to behave when we are out shopping or at an event. If we go to a party or a friends house and he sees me wearing a pair of sandals that associate with something wicked. All I have to do is discreetly click or dangle my sandal a little and he’ll straighten his course nine times out of ten. And if he doesn’t, he’s going to wish he had when I get his ass get home.

So there you have it ladies. I highly recommend starting some sandal associations soon!