Pick A Wall

f/m domestic discipline coupleAnd we’re back! Hope you didn’t miss us too badly. πŸ˜‰ So, as I mentioned in my previous post, Joey and I just recently moved and that was really more time consuming than we both had remembered it being. Been 10+ years since we last moved and boy, did we acquire some things over that period of time! Anyway, we left off where you all knew Joey had earned himself a trip to the woodshed, and thanks to the readers who voted in the “Spanking Implements – Reader’s Choice” blog post, we knew what Joey would be getting it with. Or…we THOUGHT we knew.

Joey knew that most of my sandals and belts were packed. He also knew that my implements of ass destruction were packed. He also knew with absolute certainty that we were going to record and post his next whuppin’. So, Joey being Joey, was feeling pretty safe and therefore emboldened. To say he began acting up would be an understatement. After having enough of it the other day, I went to spank him but he quickly threw it in reverse and reminded me that we had planned to record the next one. Just for good measure, he reminded me that the implements needed for administering and recording the spanking we had promised out readers were in various boxes and/or places.

Damn. That worked once. The next time…I’m sorry but I just couldn’t let his attitude adjustment wait ANY LONGER. And it went down like this…

After we got the keys to our new place, but before we had the movers move in all of our stuff, Joey and I went the our new house to measure some walls for furniture placement. At the time, I really wasn’t planning on giving him a whoopin’, but once he started smartin’ off and acting like a brat, I just couldn’t take it any more. I’m sure some of you can relate!

sitting on the bed holding a belt“Give me your belt,” I simply stated. He turned to me with an “uh oh” look on his face and then started with the, “But we have to do the Reader’s Choice…” “GIVE. ME. YOUR. BELT.” I interrupted through slightly clenched teeth. He knows that making me angry before a spanking has never ended well for him and so he somewhat reluctantly unbuckled his belt, slid it out of the belt loops on his shorts, and handed it to me. He was looking pretty contrite at this time but I wasn’t buying it.

I told him, “Take off your shorts and underwear, and put them on the banister. You won’t be needed them for the next little bit.” He had a worried look on his face because he knew what was coming. Well, to SOME degree he did.

We were in the foyer of the house and off to the side was where his office was going to be. “Come with me,” I calmly stated with his belt now doubled over in my hand as I walked into his office. Once we were both inside, I stated, “Here’s what’s going to happen. We’re going to take a tour of our new home and I’m going to give you reminders of who is in charge in every single room. I’m going to tell you to pick a wall, and you are to immediately find a wall, bend over in front of it, and put your hands on the wall. Do you understand me?”

“Yes Ma’am,” he softly responded. All of his arrogance and bravado were no where to be found.

I continued, “So…in your office…you may be the big boss man, but I want you to remember to keep your bossy “work mode” ways within these 4 walls and certainly not directed at me. Pick a wall.”

fm belt spankingI saw him swallow as he walked over to the center of one wall and bend over, putting his hands on the wall as I had instructed.


I lit into him hard. His knees were slightly buckling from the very first swat and I continued to give him 5 more for a total of 10 swats with the belt.

“Come on,” I calmly commanded as I walked out of the office across the foyer and into the dining room.

“In here, we will have family and friends over, fun, food and merriment. But I want you to remember to not get too “macho” in this room. Pick a wall.” He dropped his head a bit as he walked over to a wall and assumed the position. I think it was now dawning on him that this was a good sized house with lots of rooms for these discussions. And, we were only just getting started.

SMACK x 10 – This time from the other side – you know me. πŸ˜‰

“Let’s go,” I stated as I quickly walked into the kitchen.

“In here, I lovingly prepare meals for my husband. And, if I remember correctly, my husband sometimes likes to try to be funny by making smart-ass comments about me getting back in the kitchen. Pick a wall.” He walked over to the breakfast nook, just off the kitchen and again bent over with his hands on the wall. His butt was already starting to show the wear and tear of 20 hard lashes with a leather belt.

fm belt spankingWell, add 10 more to that…SMACK x 10

“Next room,” I said and quickly walked into the family room. “Pick a wall.”

SMACK x 10 – with an edge swat in there that had him crying out and his knees buckling a bit.

“Follow me,” I stated, enjoying the tour of our new home. Next stop on our tour, the exercise room.

“Pick a wall.” I stated.

SMACK x 10

I was getting less talkative about it and just wanted to keep spanking but thought I’d finish what I had started with the tour idea.

Unfortunately for him, there were still…

4 bedrooms to go. And yes, I followed suit in each one.

f/m belt whoopin'When I was done, I handed him his belt back and told him to go get his shorts and underwear and put them on. I also instructed him to then meet me in the family room where we would pick back up on measuring areas in the house. And can I just say, he was so very attentive and helpful during that process. πŸ˜‰

Sorry for having to use older pics above, but as this was a very spur of the moment spanking, we obviously didn’t video record which we’ll sometimes take stills from. But I did take a post spanking picture a few days later so we could share with our readers.

As you could see, Joey moved around a bit during this spanking and so he got a little more wrap around on that right side. A fitting punishment me thinks!

This happened a few weeks ago and while he’s still being pretty well behaved, I’m sure his need of another whuppin’ is not TOO far off in the distance. And this time, it will likely be the Reader’s Choice spanking, recorded for your spanking viewing pleasure. πŸ˜‰

Thanks for all the kind words, messages, comments and emails. You all are the best and we both appreciate you.

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Awesome! I’m in an FLR. She has had it with me disobeying – not being on time and not sharing when I should. Punishment is usually kneeling, hands behind back and holding a penny against the wall with my nose.

She thinks a spanking would turn me on. A real spanking would not and i think it would be very effective.

What do You think?


Great idea Jessica….now that’s what I call a housewarming !

Chris Githens

Do your sandals make his bare bottom nice and red?

John Oliver

As with everyone, love your site and the videos. I am meeting a new master/dom tonight and he has promised me a severe spanking with the belt. I’m nervous because i’ve never gotten a belting. What can i expect, what would be a “normal” length for this spanking?
Thanks for your time.


Hey John, thanks for the compliment! My Queen asked that I respond to this directly as ~I’m~ the one on the receiving end of “the belt”. haha. Unfortunately there isn’t really an easy answer to this as there are so many variables. What kind of spanking (funishment vs punishment), what kind, size, thickness and weight of the belt, and how hard the master or dom is swinging it. Also placement of the lashes comes into play.

Since this is a new master/dom and since you’ve never received a belting before. We both highly recommend good communication beforehand and also recommend using a safeword as you figure out your pain tolerances and thresholds. Safety should always come first. If your new master or dom is experienced, they will likely already guide you through this. If they are not…please be careful. Any impact play or discipline given by inexperienced spankers, can cause damage.

After you get “the belt” a time or two, you’ll start to dial in on what your expectations and desires are. As you’ve seen, Jess will take her Italian leather belt to me HARD, right off the bat. A woodshed whuppin’ for me is usually around 80+ swats. Without a warmup, many would not be able to take half of that. And on the other side of that coin, many (or maybe a few), could take much more. The important thing is to define what you want/need to fulfill the spanking desire you have.

Hope this helps my friend and good luck with your spanking. A good belting can have you sitting tenderly for days to come! πŸ™‚


Pick a wall was brilliant! I can see why you are in charge.


Yikes! I bet Joey was thinking “damn–should have downsized” during that whuppin’.


Some spankings are more memorable than others, this one may be one of the more memorable one. Love your blog.

david k

hi, im david…dana spechts naughty boy.. since leda no longer exists, you guys and dana specht and maybe 2 or3 others are the only ones putting out GREAT, REAL , hard and serious cp stuff… i love the domestic and would love to see you guys doing otk paddlings,..using hairbrushes, paddles, wooden spoons,..


Darn! i didn’t get here fast enough to make the joke about a proper housewarming, though that IS what went through my mind as i read Your post. And once again, i felt so envious that joey has You to tend to him this way! i could just imagine the apprehension building in him as You and he went from room to room, knowing that he was in for it in each room and calculating how many rooms were in the house. Even had he NOT been bratty, i think it would have been a wonderful idea for You and he to do to celebrate the new house and “break it in”. Just think, joey, it could have been worse. She COULD have made You pick a wall, take your whupping, and then hammer a nail in that wall (and in each room successive room) to hang a belt so that it was always on display to be taken down and used any time you earned a punishment, no matter in what room you misbehaved! Great job, Wicked Queen, to tend to joey as You did!

James in Fort Worth

Hi Wicked Queen & Joey
I have finally talked my wife into spanking me on a regular basis. Used to be β€œfunishments” here and there, but I wanted to amp it up a bit. I foolishly showed her this website lol. A switch flipped. Now she is against it having any sexual connotations. She knows I get aroused before she starts but if she spanked hard, that would go away. But still, I would be ready for sex 5 minutes after. We have now agreed that I will have to relieve myself before the spanking if I want one. I will have to be totally naked, and she will be using 2 of the 4 following items. The Vermont country store bathbrush, a thick leather work belt, a 16 inch very thick leather prison strap, or the Jokari paddle. Minimum 50 with each of two items. No warm ups. She also, at her discretion, can add more with additional implements if she feel She wants to give me more. No sex that same day either with her or self serve. If I even ask or she catches me, we will re-do the spanking all over again. We have never had an FLR but this change in her attitude came when I showed her the clips of you punishing Joey. I told her this is kind of what I’d like. She also read the part that said no sex. She just looked at me and said β€œSure, why not, but remember, this is what you want…but then she reeled off the conditions. I was in shock and whole hardheartedly agreed. I thought my prayers had been answered. Now I am thinking about it…I want to thank and curse you both at the same time. I think I will be brought to tears for the first time (and probably every time there after). 1st one is this coming Saturday. Isn’t Joeys readers choice coming up soon? She wants to see that one too.

Taiki Phillips

I really enjoyed reading (most) of it, I felt almost a certain amount of humor in the asking for it part and found myself chuckling. Thank you for sharing, really fantastic.

Michael A Johnson

Never had a real spanking but so excited by the thought of a leather belt spanking

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