FAQ’s About Our Spanking Videos

I wanted to take a moment to touch base on our domestic discipline spanking videos. We have received some great reviews, feedback and quite a lot of questions regarding them. So I thought I would gather some of the most common questions and answer them here for anyone else who is curious.

Question: Are these spankings really REAL?

Answer: I think you only have to watch one of our videos to know they are in fact very real spankings. In each spanking video we do, we try to make sure there is video of Joey’s backside before the spanking starts, in order to show that there was no warm up BEFORE the spanking. How many times have you seen a spanking video where the spanker pulls down the spankee’s pants and underwear, and their bottom is already red. 🤔 Things that make you go…Hmm.

Not a slam against them, (unless they are saying it is a real spanking when it clearly is not). But our goal was to share and show what a REAL spanking means to us, and what Joey is subject to (consensually), on occasion. For us, a real spanking means…no warm up, no long pauses between swats or lashes, and just one hard swat or lash after another. Most of you probably already know our thoughts on this.

I’ve recently seen some “punishment” spanking videos where a medium stroke with the paddle was given, followed by caressing the butt with the paddle on the bottom, before the next medium swat was given. To us, that is a fun spanking, or perhaps “funishment”. Again, to each their own but that is not what a DD spanking looks like to us.

One last note on this…we ARE planning to do several “How To” videos. Like…How to spank with a sandal. How to Spank with a belt, etc. We’ve been asked by several wives who are new to spanking, exactly how to do it. While it seems easy enough, there are some pitfalls for sure, as well as some techniques and safety measures that would be good to learn and practice before a spanking is given. The reason I bring this up, is that these videos will NOT be woodshed whuppin’ videos, even if Joey is due for one. That’s because I plan on taking my time explaining the techniques and getting into some detail on my techniques. But we’ll always point that out in the description, that “This Is Not A Punishment Spanking Video”, or something of the like.

Question: Do you script out the spankings?

Answer: No. I will oftentimes have an idea of WHAT I’m going to spank Joey with, and an idea of how many times with each implement. But the discussions between us, are as real as the spanking. It is interesting that when I channel my “inner-Wicked Queen”, I come up with some “gems” as Joey says. He’s mentioned this long before we were recording and even thinking about sharing videos. And these things just come naturally to me during the course of a real spanking. Stuff like, “THIS is what being bad feels like.” or “Hands come off the bed, and we start over.” Or “Take the pain, you’ve certainly earned it.” I honestly don’t sit around and think of these tidbits beforehand. My Wicked Queen just comes forth with these wonderfully strict and stern statements, along with the demeanor to match.

Our thought is if someone JUST wants to see OTK spankings, they they should’ve have to pay for the belting and paddling that was part of the actual woodshed spanking. So…hopefully this is helpful to some of you out there. 🙂

Question: Where can I buy a belt and/or paddle like that?

Answer: So the belt I’ve used I think in every video we’ve done, is my Wicked Italian leather belt. Joey found it as a high end closeout store. It was super long, and didn’t fit me, and so it was just used occasionally for spanking, back in the fun spanking days. Then he bought a nice brass belt buckle, and took it to a leathersmith, who custom made it to my size.

That’s when I started wearing it often. As mentioned in Joey’s post “Oiling the Belt“, it has been conditioned and oils many times over the years. This has increased it flexibility AND its density. It has made it a truly wicked belt for spanking. But…that’s what makes it so effective. Long story short…we have looked a little for Italian leather that is similar to my belt, but it is yet to be found. If we do, we’d like to offer them up for sale. But…there are a lot of good leather belts out there, that just need a little love (and oil), and they can be ready to blister and bruise a backside in no time!

But the paddle I used in this last spanking video, is actually available from us. I have quite a few paddles, but I really like this one. It has a great feel, weight (not too heavy, not too light), and as you have seen…it CAN wreck a backside. It is like a wooden extension of my hand. I am very comfortable swinging it, and I like the solid contact and sound it makes, when it connects on Joey’s behind. Sorry Joey…but I do. (Read – more paddlings for Joey).

Question: Joey – How do you stay in position for such a harsh spanking?

Answer (from Joey): Well, I DO move around a little, but thankfully it has not been enough to earn myself penalty swats as per the Punishment Spanking Rules, or, as you’ve heard Jess say on occasion, “Stay in position or we will start this spanking over.” At the end of the day, I have learned the hard way, that moving too much and not maintaining position only gets me more spanking. So I know it is best to take just the spanking I have coming, instead of giving her cause to add to it. It IS quite the exercise in mental discipline I must say, as self preservation kicks in. But remembering that I earned it, deserve it, and that she deserves to give it to me, I think helps me out a bit.

Question: Why don’t you know show Joey kissing your feet at the end? I’d love to see that.

Well, two reasons really. One is that after a spanking like that, there is an intimate moment between us. We’d like to keep that just between us. Secondly, even though Joey is wearing a mask in these past couple of spanking videos, we feel there would be too much exposure of him, and as you know, we wish to keep our anonymity intact.

Question: When are you going to use the Cane/Wicked Switch/Wicked Strap on him?

I’m sure those will come into play at some point in time. But if you’ve been reading our blog for a little bit, you’ve probably heard him or me state that I use those implements on him sparingly. Reason being is because they are VERY severe. I am not going to use something like that on him just to appease requests, or to get more views. When it does happen, it will come about very organically. But for what it’s worth, the Wicked Strap has been on my mind as of late…

So that concludes this session of FAQ’s but keep them coming. We’re usually not shy about answering them.

Spanking Video Update: As we’ve been fielding these comments and questions since that last trip to the woodshed, and I had an interesting realization…simply that there are people who just (or mostly) like OTK spankings, or some who just (or mostly) like belt spankings, and some who just (or mostly) just like paddle spankings. And I’m sure there are those who just (or mostly) like canings, and those who just (or mostly) like punishment strappings.

I guess it never really dawned on me (or us), as I think we’ve always had an even viewpoint of all kinds of spankings. But, to that point, we are going to put out a few compilation videos. Right now the three on deck are: All About the Paddle – A compilation of the paddlings that Joey has gotten, followed by “Nothing But the Belt” – Which will obviously be all the beltings he’s gotten, but he did come across some new footage the other day, that has never been seen before. So he is going to put that on there as well. And lastly, an OTK video (sandals and slippers).

Because these are compilation videos, of previously recorded full trips to the woodshed, we’ll be offering them at a bit of a discount. We just wanted to do a solid for our readers who have specific spanking tastes. The spankings I give usually have 2 or 3 implements involved. And we show the whole woodshed whoopin’ in its entirety. But after my realization, I thought…why should someone have to pay for a spanking that includes stuff they don’t like or aren’t really into?

So keep an eye out for those if you’re interested. Oh, and…by popular demand, we’re going to be doing some of my sandal dangling and foot videos for those who would like to get those. In fact, I’m going to get a pedicure this week so we can start shooting some of that “footage” soon. 🦶😉

If you’re not into feet…my apologies…it was Joey’s idea to add the larger picture of my feet in these jelly sandals. 🙃